When you file for divorce, you probably expect that you’ll have to go to court and make your case in front of a judge. That’s not the only requirement in Iowa though. Parties in family law cases are now required to at least give mediation a try. This is an alternative method for solving divorce-related issues, and the Dallas County divorce mediators from our firm would be happy to tell you more about it.
Is Mediation Really Mandatory?
Yes, you must attend at least one mediation session. You must schedule this session within 90 days of the notice of divorce being served. This first meeting can be used to make it clear what problems and disagreements need to be settled. Divorcing couples can also begin working toward solutions in this initial session.
How Does Mediation Work?
When you go to mediation, you and your spouse talk to a mediator, a neutral third party who has the goal of bringing the two of your together to discuss your problems and come to an agreement about key issues in your divorce. If you and your spouse can put aside any animosity and talk things out, you may be able to make a lot of progress.
What Are Some Advantages of Mediation?
Still not convinced? Let’s talk about a few of the reasons why mediation may be preferable to litigation. Mediation can be:
Less expensive: Going to court over and over again can cost you a lot of money. Mediation sessions can help you settle many matters without spending as much.
Quicker: You’ll probably have to wait a while to take your spouse to court, and the process does not speed up too much once you’re actually in front of a judge. You and your spouse may be able to work together to solve problems in less time than it would take to litigate them.
More favorable to both parties: When you go in front of a judge, you have to abide by their decision. It’s entirely possible that you get a deal that neither you nor your spouse is a big fan of. When you go to a mediator, you can potentially work out a deal that better suits both of you.
Will This Work For Me and My Spouse?
If you and your spouse can approach this process in good faith, things could work out well. Be willing to talk and be willing to compromise and you can make a lot of progress in mediation. If you cannot or will not put other issues aside, then mediation may not be for you.
Do I Need a Lawyer?
You do not bring a lawyer into the mediation sessions, but one can help you review any agreements before you sign them. They can also give you advice before and after you go into your sessions.
Talk to Our Legal Team
When you want to learn more about mediation and all of the dispute resolution options available to you in a divorce, contact Iowa Defenders, PLLC. We can schedule a consultation and take the time to learn more about your case.
